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Family Mediation: Key Points

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What is Family Mediation?

  • Helps you agree how to live apart, not get back together
  • Trained mediator helps you focus on practical issues
  • Mediator doesn’t take sides or decide what’s fair
  • Can take place together or in separate spaces
  • Mediators give legal information, not individual advice

Benefits of Family Mediation

  • Provides safe and calm space for discussion
  • Often quicker and cheaper than court
  • More control over the process and decisions
  • Can reduce conflict and stress
  • Discussions are private and confidential
  • More flexible than court process
  • Opportunity to test different ideas

Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings (MIAMs)

  • Informational meeting, not actual mediation
  • Learn about mediation and other dispute resolution options
  • Assess if mediation is suitable for your situation
  • Required before applying to family court (with exceptions)
  • Usually lasts 45 minutes to 1 hour
  • Mediator explains process, benefits, and costs
  • Assess eligibility for legal aid for mediation

When Mediation May Not Be Appropriate

  • Domestic abuse or controlling behavior
  • Child safety concerns
  • Mental health problems or learning difficulties
  • Drug or alcohol misuse
  • Inability to discuss concerns without fear

Preparing for Mediation

  • Ask mediator for suggested reading
  • Understand relevant family law
  • Consider guides on divorce, finances, and child arrangements
  • Be prepared to discuss your situation and priorities
  • Think about possible solutions and compromises
Reviewed
August 2026
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